Becoming Fergs

Still learning. Always changing. Forever becoming.

Hi, I'm Fergs!

Hi! I’m Fergs. 

This isn’t a lifestyle blog. It’s more of a “trying-to-make-sense-of-it-all” blog.

I write about the strange but beautiful business of being alive: The things I’ve done, the places I’ve been, the crazy ideas and average chaos of my household. I’ll definitely overshare and drop a few clangers with my awkward humour and my devastating social discomfort - so that will be fun. 

I’m creative and powered by “legal phet” for my ADHD. I’m getting far too old and dried up to give a shit what most people think of me, but ultimately I’m a good person who believes in equality, peace and goodwill. 

Expect some rants, perimenopausal rage, and a smidge of my inner witch to tumble out. Oh and meet up with my constant dissatisfaction that I have to work for a living, instead of getting paid for doing what I love to do with my time! Seriously, the pain is real. 

If that sounds like your kind of company, make a brew and come wander through my life on the perpetuating journey of being my true self.

We're going on a Fergs hunt...we're not scared! 

Latest Posts

Lily Allen: Blowing Up The "Pussy Palace"

Sitting with my phone in my hand I followed the lyrics of Lily Allen’s new album West End Girl and felt her anger and hurt. Each word has been placed purposefully into her compositions -  with the justifiable audacity to take back her power regardless of her obvious vulnerable and fragile mentality. 

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You’re Waving the Flag - They’re Robbing You Blind.

Britain’s gone bat shit crazy. Everywhere you look, there’s a flag flapping halfway down a lamppost like someone with T-Rex arms tried to hang it after three pints of Stella and a fight with their lass. Roundabouts painted like a toddler’s been caught red handed with the ketchup. And there is always someone in a Union Jack cape shouting about “taking our country back,” like it’s a bike that got nicked outside Iceland in Whale Hill.

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Did Our Honeymoon Just Change Us???

Yesterday we arrived back home after six nights away. Since we couldn’t fly while Ian is still recovering from his ruptured Achilles, we decided to embrace the opportunity for a UK road trip — and it turned out to be exactly what we needed.

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ADHD: The Reality of Life on Elvanse

When you first get prescribed Elvanse (Vyvanse in some countries) for ADHD, it can feel like a lifeline you’ve been waiting for your whole life. You read online stories about people getting their lives back, finally finishing tasks, and feeling “normal” for the first time. But the reality of taking Elvanse is often more complex, more personal, and sometimes, messier than you might expect.

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Living with ADHD in Your 40s

I used to think I was just messy. A bit forgetful. Prone to starting projects and never quite finishing them, leaving half-painted walls and notebooks filled with plans I’d outgrow before the ink dried. I thought everyone felt the constant buzz in their head, the low hum of ideas and to-do lists colliding together, until I suddenly found myself stuck on the sofa in a period of executive dysfunction where I couldn't get myself into the kitchen to cook dinner. 

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Fergs Unfiltered: The First Pour

I’ve been thinking a lot about how to start this space, and the truth is, life doesn’t always arrive in tidy, themed boxes. Right now, I’m making the most of my days off, basking in the warm afterglow of being newly married, and looking forward to our upcoming road trip to Somerset. I’m in a season of small joys—coffee in the garden, organising my office space, and moments of quiet laughter that remind me how much goodness can sit inside the everyday.

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Just me, spilling the real stuff. Married life, soft living rules, big dreams, stormy days, and the chaos in between. Sometimes deep, sometimes ridiculous—always honest.

 

ADHD life, loud and glittery. The wins, the chaos, the “wait, what was I doing?” moments. Just me, learning to roll with it and finding my own magic in the mess.

 


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